Resolution Part 2
March 2, 2012, by Jill
If we are to move forward, to live with resolution we must look at what is hindering or impeding us from going forwards.
Hebrews 12:1-4 says (NLT)
“ Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us”.
The dictionary defines hindrances as:
1.An impeding or stopping, preventing or the like
2. The state of being hindered
3. A person or thing that hinders
So lets look at some of the things that might hinder us.
1. Unresolved past issues
Unresolved issues from our past can stop us from fully embracing our future. Unless we resolve these past issues and are committed to moving into our future, we will struggle to move forward.
What hurt and pain are we carrying that hinders our progress?
Forgiveness, and doing what we are able to do to live in peace with others, helps us to move forward in this process.
Forgiveness is not always easy, but we all need it and we can all extend it to others. The Bible says in Luke 11:4 “And forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us”. The onus for forgiveness is always on us. We can ask ourselves :
Who do we need to forgive?
2. Procrastination
I call this the “I’ll do it tomorrow” and ”it doesn’t really matter” attitude. If we know what we are to do and we don’t do it, we are not following through and we are missing God’s best for us. A good intention remains a good intention until it is acted upon.
Deut 23:21 says:
“When you make a vow to the Lord your God, be prompt in fulfilling whatever you promised him. For the Lord your God demands that you promptly fulfil all your promises to him, or you will be guilty of sin”.
God says that to not do what we know is right, is actually sin. When we know God is leading us and speaking to us, lets follow through.
What are we putting off today, that we know God is asking us to do? When are we going to do it?
3. Excuses
These are the “reasons” for behaviour and circumstance we allow to stop us. There is a reason for everything. We are good at giving excuses and reasons as to why something has or has not happened. We must understand the difference between a reason and an excuse. So often we excuse behaviour and justify with reasons. If we are to continue to live with resolution and to move into all God has for us we must carefully look at what we are allowing ourselves to get away with by making excuses. Excuses are a hindrance.
Ephesians 5:3-9 says
“ Let there be no sexual immorality, impurity, or greed among you. Such sins have no place among God’s people. Obscene stories, foolish talk, and coarse jokes—these are not for you. Instead, let there be thankfulness to God. You can be sure that no immoral, impure, or greedy person will inherit the Kingdom of Christ and of God. For a greedy person is an idolater, worshiping the things of this world.
Don’t be fooled by those who try to excuse these sins, for the anger of God will fall on all who disobey him. Don’t participate in the things these people do. For once you were full of darkness, but now you have light from the Lord. So live as people of light! For this light within you produces only what is good and right and true”.
It’s not ok to excuse our bad behaviour. Let’s get good at seeing the reasons but using them to change our behaviour not to perpetuate wrong behaviour.
What are we allowing ourselves to get away with?
What behaviours are we making excuses for?
What changes do we need to make?
4. Fear
Fear is the biggest stealer of our future. Fear if we allow it, becomes crippling and can stop us from stepping out. The Apostle Peter encouraged the people to look to God, to give their cares and worries and fears to him.
1 Peter 5:7 “cast your cares on him because he cares for you”.
The Apostle John, writing about God’s love, tells us that God’s perfect love casts out all fear. When we allow faith to rise up and let God’s love shine on us, and into our situations, his love casts out fear and allows us to move forward into God’s purpose for our lives.
How are we allowing fear to hinder us? What will we do about it?
Seek God and his love and fear will recede.
Let’s become people who live in God’s love and who throw off those things that hinder us from living fully according to God’s good purpose for us.